Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Dreams Of Cannot Talk Or Cannot Move

By Jurell Green

This is the first of (4) Articles on Dreams of Can't Talk Or Can't Move in Dreams. All (4) articles can be viewed at: DreamMessenger.com.

To dream you cannot have motion or talk can be telling you that the moment has come for you to bravely deal with a problem or situation in your life in order to gain back some control over how you feel about the way a problematic situation has been progressing and making you feel or changing your life.

Although there are several steps, the first step needed to overcome your anxiety and fear is to look at the problem head on and try not to imagine the problem as bigger than it is despite the situation looking overwhelming and causing you to feel absolutely helpless. Though the situation seems out of control, if you believe there is hope, you can find an answer. Decide to get more involved in finding a solution that changes the outcome.

Many times, the reason people dream they cannot move or talk is the result of a memory experience or bad experience that goes back to their childhood. These were experiences that were emotional, traumatic and the memory is still with them. It's not uncommon for serious experiences to embed into our memory for life as a constant companion, surfacing from time to time in both our wakened states and in our dreams. As a result, the memory often is triggered in dreams causing us to become speechless in the dream, completely unable to move, leaving us with the feeling that if one could only scream, talk or cry out, we could escape the danger in the dream and bring the dream to a close.

Often people have dreams where they cannot talk or move their bodies as a result of experiences they have had in the natural world. These awakening experiences are generally emotionally or physically violent in nature, either audibly, physically or both. As a consequence, the memory of the experiences is embedded deeply in the subconscious often reappearing again and again in our dream states. I have talked to many people who suffer these kinds of dreams and have gathered this: they tell me the dream experience can be terrifying for the dreamer, during the dream state and upon awakening from the dream.

In addition to memories and past experiences, another reason for a person not to be able to talk, yell or scream in a dream can be the result of continually finding themselves feeling embarrassed or looked down upon for what they might have said or questioned for their actions; and this fear carries over into their dreams. This is a common trait with people who may stutter, are uninformed on a topic, have a speech impediment or become nervous and agitated when around certain toxic people who overreact emotionally in public outbursts of anger without much provocation or real justification.

Many times, a person who is not able to talk, yell or scream in a dream stems from a result of anger transferred over from their awakened state into their dream toward a person in a dream, or toward a person who is symbolic of someone in the dream. This is generally a person the dreamer dislikes or is angry with in the natural.

Fear constantly plays an important part in these types of dreams where a person is not able to move, partially paralyzed or paralyzed in a dream and can barely move about or left to crawl in the dream and is as a result of a fear they have in their wakened state because they do not have the answer to a situation or a problem. The dreaming person does not know what to do in a particular situation resulting in an inhibiting fear of rejection moving into the dream state, either paralyzing them into non-action or rendering them barely able to crawl or shift their body.

Yet, another common reason that is sometimes overlooked for a person not to be able to talk, yell or scream in a dream can be a result of an occurrence in the natural where they were actually embarrassed or looked down on for what they had said or had done in the natural, and this fear memory enters into their dreams. Haven't we all been there? We all need to learn to make unpleasant memories fade. Okay, it happened. I'm a different person today. Consider the person who caused you to feel that way. Not a very nice person, eh? Therefore, this is a memory that today has no continuing place in your thought life.

Often with people who may not be feeling entirely confident in their knowledge on a subject or who have nervous speech impediments becoming agitated around the kind of people who make others feel uncomfortable will sometimes suffer dreams where they cannot speak or have a problem talking in their dreams.

Now, you do realize, of course, that you've got the stuff that it takes, so just keep on talking; we all stutter here and there. So what. It's normal. Master a sense of calm confidence so when those moments arise, you will be readied to be composed, freed up to speak effectively expressing your thoughts well.

Look for Articles 2, 3, and 4, coming soon or click on: Dream Messenger Articles and review all FOUR Articles.

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