Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Sex, Marriage and Compatibility - Soul Mate Connections Are not Which You Assume

By Ricky Hindricks


Sometimes people are drawn together like magnets, yet the compatibility is questionable. It's not smooth sailing to say the least, and trying to build it permanent is akin to strapping a 45 lb. pounds for your back for the rest of your life.

Might the inability to part ways, the intense draw, be a mysterious working of fate? Yes. "Soul mate" connections very often include lots of strife and heavy lessons, without the presumed romantic bliss.

Based on our comprehensive astrology and numerology work, 2 individuals can absolutely be incompatible, yet they may stay together for other reasons. Know that individual A might have beneficial overall compatibility with person B, but not with individual C. Varying, certain degrees of intellectual, emotional, spiritual, physical and sexual compatibility exist in between each couple.

Despite a lack of compatibility, some this kind of couples say no amount of effort is too significantly to save a relationship if they are deeply in love. We recommend looking at what "deeply in love" quite ways to you. What exactly do you feel for the person and why? Is there an early life, dysfunctional dynamic becoming played out for either or both of you? Is the connection held together by guilt as a result of a single or each of you being afraid to walk away? Exactly how significantly sacrifice is involved for you personally or him? Is it really a great connection, or is it a lot more about what they do for you or voids they fill for you? Are you afraid to be alone? Are you concerned about financial security? You've got being brutally honest with yourself should you want clarity.

Every individual you meet is in your a variety of reason, or reasons. It's not effortless to overrule your heart and be completely objective in your romantic life, but it will save you heartache. Dating is simpler whenever you accept every case for what it is instead of trying to cast a play (husband or wife role, provider, etc.).

To assist you to understand additional about romantic compatibility, we'll list some of our findings. We now have yet to invalidate the after considerations through our extensive work over the years: some romantic connections include questionable compatibility, but the shared or compatible timing (long-term or short-term) serves as the foundation of the draw; some connections are horrible, but the "unexplainable" draw is intense and serves to help them fulfill the karmic implications of this particular "soul mate" connection (one or both "owe" every other in not so pleasant ways); some individuals have great life-long love karma, some persons have fair life-long love karma, and others have terrible life-long adore karma; one's personal timing (long-term and, or short-term), if good in relation to love-life, can symbolically, somewhat mitigate one's life-long hard love-life karma; one's personal timing, if incredibly difficult in connection with love, can symbolically wreck one's love life even if they have great life-long adore karma (as reflected within the patterns in the comprehensive charts).

We think that a highly compatible match doesn't need a lot of "work" or compromise. If you are complete by yourself and have your life together, finding somebody to share it with should not need you to give up your goals, friends, hobbies, or what you've worked hard for.

At the same time, compatible, harmonious matches that also share a high degree of sexual chemistry are few and far between for most people. Some men and women would rather be with someone who is semi-compatible, or not compatible at all instead of becoming alone. Others are content to become alone and concentrate on other areas of their life, like career, until they meet an individual they feel is worth sharing their time with. It's up to you, yet our work tells us that persons are largely going to do what they are predestined to do, so as extended as you remain objective and respond with compassion and unconditional love, you'll be fine.




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