Tuesday, August 2, 2011

J-Lo Will She and Marc Be Friends After Divorce?

By Andrew Azar


J-Lo is headed for divorce court with Marc Anthony after a marriage that lasted seven not so blissful years. While ending a relationship after that many years can be difficult, astrology gives a better understanding of why they split up.

There are always stars in the eyes of a new relationship, but, time is what tells us whether or not it will last. In this particular case, the stars were not on their side and they tell a different story about their relationship which wasn't so hot as the media portrayed.

Both J-Lo and Marc Anthony are from New York City which gave them the illusion that they had things in common. For a while they did because they were both familiar with their environment. And, both are Puerto Rican so they share a similar background culturally. This probably held them together more than any other single thing.

From an astrological point of view, it is easy to see how they fell in love in the first place. A Sun-Pluto conjunction is very powerful, often leading to that bolt of lightning, of love at first sight. Polarity-wise, they are opposites, which adds that benefit of natural magnetism between them. A sextile Sun with Neptune is a good aspect for romantic chemistry and for attraction beyond the physical.

Their relationship can be very frustrating at times because of a Mars/Neptune square. This can also include a deceptive characteristic which can surface from time to time leading to frustration on both parts. With a square Venus/Jupiter, there can be times when they misunderstand each other which will jolt them into reality about the fact that they are different people.

There is a Pluto/Pluto conjunction when looking at their charts together. I do think that this is the most important aspect causing them to divorce. Usually, because these outer plants are very, very slow moving, most of the time a conjunction like this would not have as drastic an affect. But, this type of conjunction can over time, cause under currents.

Pluto is a problem planet. Some people do not even think it is a planet anymore! In terms of astrology, and in particularly concerning romance, Pluto can be a real issue. As it is a commonality, people take it for granted. On a conscious level, you may not understand why you are attracted to your partner? Or why your partner affects you so much? On a relationship level, the more together you are with your partner, the more you repress your own emotions. Often this is the case where such repression goes to the extreme.

So, if I were a advising either Jennifer Lopez or Marc Anthony on their relationship using astrology, I believe I would reassure them that they must do what is best for themselves and their children. As odd as it may seem, sometimes couples get along better when they are apart and no longer romantically involved. Interestingly enough, even with the announcement that the couple is seeking a divorce after 7 years, they may still go forward with a Reality TV series that had been in an early production stage.

Even though divorce is always sad, especially when there are children involved, this couple will probably remain friends and working partners in the future. There are a number of reasons floating about regarding possible infidelity, but, that will not stop them from a friendly relationship in the future. They should get through this according to their charts with a positive outcome.




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