I'm a Gemini woman having a Scorpio man too... concept I'd share some insight and repay karma, as I have discovered _ reading immensely helpful to understanding & growing my thus far 8mo. relationship. Let me tell you, it has been a crazy, intense, dramatic, turbulent roller coaster ride with all of the extreme highs and extreme lows!!
First thing, he is really interested in you / relationship, if you have been spending that a lot time together and enjoying eachother's company, particularly if you have already known every other / had a history (high school). Scorpio's just require lots of time to digest and analyze their emotions and situations, "need a lot of space" as numerous sites allude to, particularly following this sort of a important move / action within the newly budding relationship. He is almost certainly over considering and more than analyzing every emotion, action, interaction, reactions, etc. in the entire situation, and since Scorp's are so emotionally deep, sometimes it takes them a although to rationalize and make sense of their emotions... thus the space and have to disconnect at times. Do not take it as being a sign of rejection / abandonment, this can be just their nature to pull away, most men are like that but specifically far more so for Scorp males. Just leave them be, and most always then not, they'll be back.
Also TRUST is of paramount value to Scorpio's, and he don't open up and share his actual thoughts / emotions until he trusts you (and even right after he does, he even now would be quiet / secretive / mysterious! Perhaps he feels so deeply / thinks so a lot into everything, that he's at a lost for words, or can not express all he feels into words, several times -- that may be what I think!). Also be forewarned that Scorpio's are infamous for "TESTING" their mates -- some call it mind games, some call it overly precautious / suspicious / defensive / very serious guys... whatever it is, it happens, they do it whether or not they realize. They are also MOODY, cynical, prone to depression, and angry... blame it on Pluto and Mars. I believe Scorps are attracted to Gems b/c we're light & happy, and they are dark & sad... and being inside dark most in the time sucks (as you may attest to with your situation with him at the moment!). They also need to believe powerful, and in Control of situations and specifically of his personal emotions. They hate to feel weak in themselves or sense weakness in others. His very own emotions are the very best source of their strength but also their finest weakness, so falling in adore entails a modest bit of losing control, and most will resent giving up some manage (but also adore it too, as they adore to love, and intensely too... go figure). Also, beware of their stings! They can have biting remarks, sharp tongues... especially if they feel insulted in some way (they are Very SENSITIVE!!! but hide it under the guise of PRIDE and EGO!!!). Dealing having a Scorpio man, you'll develop a thicker skin, a more wry sense of humor, and the patience of a saint!!! Even if/when you get past this modern day impasse... retain in mind, towards the ones they have feelings for, they like to tease (ie. select on / make fun of) you to show their "playful/happy"... if nothing else, you'll truly grow stronger as an individual!!!
My booty on your bearings is that he could be falling for you, and is abashed of activity vulnerable, b/c he doesn't apperceive your intentions. Especially, don't appetite to lose a accord for a cast if that's your affair (could be what he's thinking; maybe he thinks you're alone absorbed in accidental relationships and not annihilation more). He's apparently not the best alive guy either, but as a Gemini, you can affably acquaint your artlessness / intentions / SERIOUSNESS to accomplish him feel safer for him to accessible up -- again, accepting his assurance is key. B/c you guys were bubbler / beneath the influence, conceivably he's borderline whether or not you intend it to go further. My admonition would be to argument him a 'happy' msg and ask to accommodated up for coffee / no burden / both of you guys adequate accessible place, be blessed to see him, accord him a balmy affable hug... afresh acquaint him that you absolutely amount your friendship, had a abundant time the added night (can add in wistfully / playfully, 'wish to acquaintance it while sober! b/c it would be a lot added meaningful, an acquaintance i appetite to accept with you'), and would like to see if your accord can now abound into a relationship. If you attending into his eyes, you'll be able to see the accuracy and faculty his emotions. If you don't accommodated up, you can argument him article similar, to the aftereffect of 'Just appetite to say I amount your friendship. What happened the added night was appropriate to me, although it could accept been added appropriate if I/we were sober. I don't accept in accidental sex/relationships, and accept in bluntness and sincerity. Getting to apperceive you a little bit added now, I am absorbed in seeing if we can advance a allusive relationship. However, I would accept if you don't feel the same'. Ideally, you guys will be in being back you accept a allocution agnate to this, but if not, aloof argument him article like that, and afresh aloof leave it at that. He should appear about in a day or few afterwards digesting and allegory your words. Funny affair with these guys is, alike if it seems like they're blank you, they'll still listen... aloof not acknowledge appropriate away. And be forewarned... the alliance ball with Scorp males is slooooooooooooooowwww... I like to anticipate a scorpion that is anchored until he feels safe abundant / abiding there's no casualty to advance their aperitive innards!
Also, verify out astrologycompatibilityreport.com. There are lots of excellent insight into these hard Scorpio men!!! Very good luck! Please update on any developments!
First thing, he is really interested in you / relationship, if you have been spending that a lot time together and enjoying eachother's company, particularly if you have already known every other / had a history (high school). Scorpio's just require lots of time to digest and analyze their emotions and situations, "need a lot of space" as numerous sites allude to, particularly following this sort of a important move / action within the newly budding relationship. He is almost certainly over considering and more than analyzing every emotion, action, interaction, reactions, etc. in the entire situation, and since Scorp's are so emotionally deep, sometimes it takes them a although to rationalize and make sense of their emotions... thus the space and have to disconnect at times. Do not take it as being a sign of rejection / abandonment, this can be just their nature to pull away, most men are like that but specifically far more so for Scorp males. Just leave them be, and most always then not, they'll be back.
Also TRUST is of paramount value to Scorpio's, and he don't open up and share his actual thoughts / emotions until he trusts you (and even right after he does, he even now would be quiet / secretive / mysterious! Perhaps he feels so deeply / thinks so a lot into everything, that he's at a lost for words, or can not express all he feels into words, several times -- that may be what I think!). Also be forewarned that Scorpio's are infamous for "TESTING" their mates -- some call it mind games, some call it overly precautious / suspicious / defensive / very serious guys... whatever it is, it happens, they do it whether or not they realize. They are also MOODY, cynical, prone to depression, and angry... blame it on Pluto and Mars. I believe Scorps are attracted to Gems b/c we're light & happy, and they are dark & sad... and being inside dark most in the time sucks (as you may attest to with your situation with him at the moment!). They also need to believe powerful, and in Control of situations and specifically of his personal emotions. They hate to feel weak in themselves or sense weakness in others. His very own emotions are the very best source of their strength but also their finest weakness, so falling in adore entails a modest bit of losing control, and most will resent giving up some manage (but also adore it too, as they adore to love, and intensely too... go figure). Also, beware of their stings! They can have biting remarks, sharp tongues... especially if they feel insulted in some way (they are Very SENSITIVE!!! but hide it under the guise of PRIDE and EGO!!!). Dealing having a Scorpio man, you'll develop a thicker skin, a more wry sense of humor, and the patience of a saint!!! Even if/when you get past this modern day impasse... retain in mind, towards the ones they have feelings for, they like to tease (ie. select on / make fun of) you to show their "playful/happy"... if nothing else, you'll truly grow stronger as an individual!!!
My booty on your bearings is that he could be falling for you, and is abashed of activity vulnerable, b/c he doesn't apperceive your intentions. Especially, don't appetite to lose a accord for a cast if that's your affair (could be what he's thinking; maybe he thinks you're alone absorbed in accidental relationships and not annihilation more). He's apparently not the best alive guy either, but as a Gemini, you can affably acquaint your artlessness / intentions / SERIOUSNESS to accomplish him feel safer for him to accessible up -- again, accepting his assurance is key. B/c you guys were bubbler / beneath the influence, conceivably he's borderline whether or not you intend it to go further. My admonition would be to argument him a 'happy' msg and ask to accommodated up for coffee / no burden / both of you guys adequate accessible place, be blessed to see him, accord him a balmy affable hug... afresh acquaint him that you absolutely amount your friendship, had a abundant time the added night (can add in wistfully / playfully, 'wish to acquaintance it while sober! b/c it would be a lot added meaningful, an acquaintance i appetite to accept with you'), and would like to see if your accord can now abound into a relationship. If you attending into his eyes, you'll be able to see the accuracy and faculty his emotions. If you don't accommodated up, you can argument him article similar, to the aftereffect of 'Just appetite to say I amount your friendship. What happened the added night was appropriate to me, although it could accept been added appropriate if I/we were sober. I don't accept in accidental sex/relationships, and accept in bluntness and sincerity. Getting to apperceive you a little bit added now, I am absorbed in seeing if we can advance a allusive relationship. However, I would accept if you don't feel the same'. Ideally, you guys will be in being back you accept a allocution agnate to this, but if not, aloof argument him article like that, and afresh aloof leave it at that. He should appear about in a day or few afterwards digesting and allegory your words. Funny affair with these guys is, alike if it seems like they're blank you, they'll still listen... aloof not acknowledge appropriate away. And be forewarned... the alliance ball with Scorp males is slooooooooooooooowwww... I like to anticipate a scorpion that is anchored until he feels safe abundant / abiding there's no casualty to advance their aperitive innards!
Also, verify out astrologycompatibilityreport.com. There are lots of excellent insight into these hard Scorpio men!!! Very good luck! Please update on any developments!
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